Peak and mystical experiences in intimate relationships

The focus of this paper is intimate relationship peak experiences arising from loving or sexual involvement. Different types of peak experiences were described and their relevance to relationship functioning explored qualitatively and quantitatively. In a convenience sample (N = 298), participants who identified having peak experiences were on average significantly older, more passionate, more sexually responsive and had less negative affect. Participants reporting peak experiences of a mystical nature tended to be significantly older and more spiritually focused. We concluded that relationship peak and mystical peak experiences represent important and memorable occasions which are personally significant to some couple members, deepening their bond. As such, therapists may strengthen partners' senses of belonging to the relationship by discussion of peak experiences.